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The Legal Dangers of Living Together

From the nextavenue website

For couples over 50, living together has a lot of appeal and is on the rise. In fact, the number of unmarried couples who are 50+ shot up 75% between 2007 and 2016, according to the U.S. Census Bureau. One likely reason: many have experienced at least one difficult divorce, so they’re gun-shy about remarrying and potential legal entanglements if things don’t work out.

Unfortunately, however, as with many things in life, what seems simple — living together — is often quite complex. Unmarried couples, of all sexual orientations, can face a variety of problematic and emotionally difficult issues because estate planning laws are written to favor married couples.

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Veterans Day Discounts 2019, Free Meals, Resources Exclusive to Veterans

From the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) website

Veterans Day 2019 is on Monday, November 11, 2019. This Veterans Day discounts list will continue to be updated as we learn of more nationally available Veterans Day discounts, meals, or other ways businesses and organizations want to give back to Veterans. These Veterans Day discounts, free meals and other programs are being shared so that Veterans, their families, caregivers, and survivors are aware of all resources available to them.

Check out this year’s discounts

VA Disclaimer: The sharing of any non-VA information does not constitute an endorsement of products and services on part of the VA. Verify information with the organization offering.

Off Track: The Creepiest Places in All 50 States

From the Travel Channel website

From the Tamara’s Journeys blog site

From rundown prisons to defunct hospitals to hotels with resident ghosts, discover the creepiest spot in your state…if you dare

Happy Halloween 2019

Have a great Halloween!  Be Safe!

Related: About Halloween | Halloween Safety 

Hq 201 CCG Retirees Sighted

Retirees of the Headquarters, 201st Combat Communications Group meet occasionally for lunch. Around the table in the photograph are: Miles Tamura (in red), Roy Iwamoto, Carl NakamuraBacilio “BJ” Juarez, and Calvin Chow.

When Your Elderly Parents Move in With You

From the U.S. News & World Report website

Moving elderly parents into your home can bring daunting challenges and unexpected closeness. Over the past 20 years, parents living with their adult children has become increasingly common.

Here’s how to care for aging parents in your home.

Alternatives to Surgery for an Enlarged Prostate

From The New York Times website

Ed Goldman, a retired bookbinder who says he’s “pushing 80,” does not let his age or enlarged prostate curtail his physical activities and desire to travel. He walks the streets of his beloved New York for about two miles a day, five or more days a week, and knows every possible bathroom stop along his usual routes.

When arriving in foreign territory, he immediately checks out the location of lavatories to avoid an embarrassing accident. “The urgency, when it hits, can be pretty scary,” he told me.

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HIARNG Generals Entertaining

Off the 111th Army Band Facebook page

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After the recent Hawaii Army National Guard Change of Command, BG Kenneth Hara and BG Moses Kaoiwi took the stage to sign with the musical group Na Koa. Both generals grew up in Hilo and they sang the Hawaii Island song, Hilo March.

In this photograph are (L-R): SPC Kameron Omizu (bass), SGT Jeffrey Domingo (keyboards), BG Kenneth Hara (singing), SSG Bryan Sanchez (drums), BG Moses Kaoiwi (singing), and CW4 Jeremiah “JP” Paragon (guitar).


Joseph Kapaeau Ae‘a, a member of the Royal Hawaiian Band composed the song in 1881, and bandmaster Henry Berger arranged it as a march. It has been adopted as the island song of the Big Island, Hawai’i.  

Who’s Most Likely to Scam a Senior? The Answer May Surprise You

From the Health Day website

As people age and their mental capacities decline, they can often be targeted by scammers seeking easy cash. But more often than not, this “financial abuse” comes not from a stranger, but from a trusted family member, research from the University of Southern California (USC) shows.

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Flu season is here and now is the time to get a flu shot

From the CNN website

The aches, the sneezing, the sore throat, the exhaustion — flu season is here and you want to be prepared.

Typically, the “season” starts in October, but there has already been flu-related deaths reported. Physicians say it’s not too early to get a flu shot and they are available at many pharmacies and doctor’s offices around the country.

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Under the Helmet: Maj Britton Komine

From the Hawaii News Now website

Hawaii Air National Guard Photograph

Former University of Hawaii receiver Britton Komine, now a major with the Hawaii Air National Guard, was the pilot who flew the C-17 during the flyover before kickoff against Air Force. The Nick Rolovich Show featured a segment about Komine and his Air Guard career after his graduation. 

Watch the video segment

DNA Testing: Is it right for you?

From The Island Scene website

Your sister took one because she’s filling in your family tree. Your friend took one to find out if he’s at risk for Alzheimer’s. And your mom took one because she got it as a gift. The popularity of at-home DNA tests has exploded in the past few years. But are they all they’re cracked up to be? Certified genetic counselor Lila Aiyar explains what works, what doesn’t, and when to see a genetic counselor.

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Island Scene is the quarterly magazine of the Hawaii Medical Service Association (HMSA). Please note that DNA testing is not a benefit of HMSA plans.

Indefinite enlistment takes effect November 18

From the Air Force Times website

The Air Force will move to a new system of “indefinite enlistment” for airmen with at least 12 years of service on November 18, service officials confirmed Friday after a leaked memo appeared online Wednesday evening.

Under the new system, airmen who hit 12 years time-in-service will now automatically have their enlistments extended to their rank’s high year of tenure mark. They can apply to retire once they become eligible, or separate before becoming retirement-eligible, when they wish, as long as they don’t have an active-duty service commitment.

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Thanks to Gordon Lau for emailing this article to Retiree News

Off Track: What is poke and where did it come from?

From the Hawaiian Airlines website

Poke’s come a long way from its origins in pre-contact times, when ancient Hawaiians feasted on freshly caught fish massaged with sea salt, seaweed and crushed inamona or kukui nuts. Today poke shops are popping up from Los Angeles to Kansas City to New York. But what of poke in the Islands? Where has poke’s path taken this iconic dish?

Poke’s evolution has been fairly straightforward: Changes mirror the tastes of new arrivals. When ships from the West Coast dropped anchor in local ports, sailors traded salmon for salt. Waves of immigrants from China and Japan introduced soy sauce and sesame oil. Just as each group has added its dishes to Hawaii’s culinary melting pot, selections of poke have multiplied. Visit any poke counter today and you’ll find not just ahi limu (seaweed) and spicy ahi poke, but kimchee shrimp, furikake salmon, miso tako (octopus), pipikaula (dried beef) and even bacalao poke made with Portuguese dried salt cod.

That’s all at supermarkets and poke shops. What about at restaurants, where poke appears on plate lunches, prix fixe tasting menus and everything in between? Here’s a glimpse of poke in its myriad forms today.